The method
It's not a
personality test.
It's a conversation
about whether you could live together.
Dating apps measure initial attraction. We're trying to measure something much harder: whether two people could build something that lasts.
Why people who love each other end up separating.
It's not for lack of love. It's often because they had incompatible life plans they didn't see in time. One wanted kids, the other wasn't sure. One wanted to live in the countryside, the other in the city. One wanted a quiet life, the other was always chasing the next challenge.
These incompatibilities don't show up on the first date. They show up on day 500, on day 1,000, when the relationship is already real and the cost of separating is high.
Today's apps optimize for the first date. They show the prettiest photo, the most attractive profile, the wittiest message. We're trying to optimize for day 1,000.
People change. And that's a good thing.
One of the common criticisms of compatibility tests is: "But people change. Who you are today isn't who you'll be in ten years."
You're right. That's why our test doesn't measure who you are — it measures how you approach life. There's a difference.
You can change jobs, cities, passions. But how you handle conflict, make important decisions, relate to your own space and time — that changes very slowly. And if it changes, it changes because you worked to change it.
What we're looking for isn't someone identical to you. We're looking for someone who shares the same direction. Because people who grow together, grow better.
What the test measures, exactly.
The test has no right answers. There's no good or bad. It measures four areas:
Life plan
Kids or no kids. Where to live. Pace of life. Relationship with family of origin. Career ambitions. Time horizon.
Conflict management
How you react when you're upset. When you need space. When the other person does something that bothers you. How you decide when there's no consensus.
Living together
Personal space within the relationship. Routines. Shared or separate finances. Tidy or messy. Noise or silence. Where the line is.
Core values
Relationship with nature, community, religion or spirituality. Politics and worldview. Importance of tradition vs. change.
Current phase
How do we know our test works?
This is where we're being honest: we don't know yet. The test is a hypothesis. We believe measuring compatibility of values and life plan predicts long-term satisfaction better than measuring initial attraction. But we have to prove it.
To validate it, we're doing something simple: asking real, established couples to take the test.
The question we're asking ourselves is: if a couple has been together for years and is happy, should they score high on compatibility in our test? If the model is good, yes. If the score doesn't correlate with their real happiness, the test needs revising.
With the results of this validation, we'll refine the model before launching it to single people. We want to be reasonably confident it works before taking responsibility for real people's connections.
Are you in a stable relationship? Help us validate the test. Take it together and share the result. We don't publish your data. We only use it to calibrate the model.
We want to take part →Our roadmap.
- ✓ Phase 1 — Wall of profiles
We're gathering real people who want an alternative. No swipes, no photos. No algorithm. Right now.
- → Phase 2 — Validation with real couples
We run the test with established couples to calibrate the model. We want to know whether value compatibility predicts real happiness.
- ○ Phase 3 — Test launch
We open the test to single people. Whoever joined the wall will be the first to get access.
- ○ Phase 4 — Matching
With enough users and a validated model, we connect people with high compatibility. No awkward surprises.
Want to be here from the start?
Join the wall now. When we launch the test, you'll be the first to know.
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